As another mother articulated, there is no escaping the reality of the injury her child sustained due to her birth ing complicated by a shoulder dystocia. -I see my baby get frustrated throughout the day because she can't move her arm. I am constantly reminded of the traumatic birth we both went through. It will never away. Every devel- go opmental that should be rejoiced is instead heart step breaking and upsetting. There is no ecaping the reality of this, ever" (Beck, 2009).