My ex west wife used to, after the years went by, develop this beleif that I could “do anything properly” and I have seen other wifes treat their man like this. Like when we had to drive 29 hours on a trip I went to change the brake pads on her car.. she said she wanted them done “properly”, then later find the “certified mechanic” messed it all up putting us in danger…
see what I mean (and I used to fix fighter jets)