People love to either say that you are fat (most often if you are not fat, then they don't usually say it I guess :P). Or if you are really skinny people always mention that as well. People just like to have an opinion I think ^^.
I think white is a really feminine color, without getting as princessy as say pink of light blue. And it can be used for almost anything :) (except for digging for plants and working outdoors I guess :P).