This is why while our 20s are such an annoyingly difficult transitional period that never stops presenting change (the intangible kind, not the coin kind), we have to re-evaluate.
We have to stop being so far ahead of ourselves. What’s going to happen will happen, and we have to understand that we don’t always have control.
Bumps in the road happen and we have to deal with them as best we can. How do we know that the outcome we want won’t happen? We don’t.
While things can hurt, sometimes devastate us and totally knock us off our game, we have to accept the lack of control. We can totally do this.
We have to remain positive and focused and have our hearts and minds set on what we want. We can take all of that negative thinking and turn it into imagining what we want and how to get it. It’s amazing how helpful doing so can be