Thank you so very much for telling me about yourself and your history. I am truly sorry to hear about all the bad luck you have had in your previous relationships. I really do not think that you have done anything wrong at all in either oneof the relationships, it is all about the men not being honest or faithful to you, which is completely wrong, and I honestly do not understand why anyone would treat other people like that. I am a great believer in the saying that you should treat other people the way you want to be treated yourself. There is no way anyone is so busy at work that they can not meet on Skype for months os years, a few days certainly, but not for much longer than that.
I really am impressed that you have the courage to try again despite the bad experiences you have had, which says a lot about you being a strong and determined woman, which I really like in a person. Most importantly in a relationship is that the chemistry and love is there, being together is all about respecting each other and have a balance, no one is the boss of the other person, it should be an equal relationship with both persons having their say and rights to decisions.
I can definitely promise you that I won't be bossing you around or not being able to get on Skype for any long periods of time, lie to you or be unfaithful to you, if we do make it into a relationship together. Also, I am not looking to be in a long distance relationship for years, so if we do hit it off, I am looking for us to be staying together full time as soon as possible - still taking our time to be sure about how we feel about each other and doing the right thing for us, but not drag it on for years and years.
I very much do want to know you more, your bad luck in previous relationships does change any of that, and again, I am very impressed with your honesty, which in fact only makes me want to get to know you even more.
Take care Tan, and look forward to hear from you again