How many times do you go out with a Vietnamese man and he offers to pay for you? How many times do you go out with that same Vietnamese man and he offers to pay for you again? I don’t know how lucky you are, but I rarely had to pay for anything when I visited Vietnam. Yes, I’m a guy, not a beautiful girl as you would imagine. Most Vietnamese men won’t let you pay if you were to go out with them regardless of your gender, even if you have to throw a fist at them to pay for your own share. A lot of people think that this is a very nice trait of a gentleman, but to me they are overdoing it. Sometimes, they offer to cover your back when they don’t even have enough money for themselves! Maybe we could link this trait to the big ego that I mentioned above and get a clearer picture of why Vietnamese men act like that. Some people may say that Vietnamese men are more generous than other men. That really depends on you.