I propose something:1 / when I come to Thailand, we take a coffee together2 / if I fall off my chair and you too, we talk to see how we'll see (myfriend returned to France after one week, I have 15 more days)3 / if I stay in Bangkok for 15 days, it would be nice if I can see you often4 / If all goes well, and we decided to continue together, you do make a passportand you just spend one month in France with me if it is possible (I pay thefee for the passport and plane ticket)5 / if the month goes well you get married in Thailand