It's still all perspective. What's important to you, better or superior for your own purposes is not necessarily the same as others. So, certainly you can CAN say that this way or that is better and anyone paying attention would likely realize that you're implying it's better for YOU. What's better for you may not work so well for others. And if you yourself are not paying attention, you might just say that THIS way of such n such is better for me and it would be for you too if you would only adopt this obviously superior way....without taking into consideration they just might be thinking the same thing because they have a different value system. The point is you are in fact both right if you find greater value in this way or that. To say that your way is better not only for you, but for them too, sounds like assuming that they do or should have your same value system. Just as an example, an extreme version of this way of thought was the basis of the crusades. Food for thought