Well like you have said i am not going to force you to do what you don't like i have feelings for you but is okay i will let you do as you wish i am only a human and i don't like to force people to love me true love is something they don't buy it but i will keep my love and will offer to anyone whos is ready to accept it .
For me love have no time or distance if the love is real you don't have to take 2 to 3 years to know each others that is why most be understanding but is your wish and i can't question you for that everyone is not the same and we all have different way of thinking .