Today was a very weird day... Khanom I thought a lot about what you said to me, and what I said to you, I thought a lot about what happened. I understand that, you really love me, and you said to I'm good boyfriend for you, but because of your past, you do not think relationships can last, and you think you will loose me in time, whereas you think friends are forever, and that's how you want to keep me, you think being friends is a sort of true love, whereas couple relationship is not. I know now why you think this way. You think boyfriend and girlfriend works only for a time, then you break up and you loose your partner, whereas you can keep someone you trully love as a friend forever.
Now I understand you think this way, because that's how most people act, and behave, most people will tell you "I love you forever" or "I swear you're the one for me and I will never love anyone else in my whole life", but in the end they end up dumping you for someone else and you loose them, I guess you're scared of that and you don't want it to happen, you want to keep me so you think the best way is to "change" the type of relationship... Maybe you also think that it was working good while I was in Thailand, near you, but now that I am far away, maybe are you scared that I end up going away for someone else, and you would loose me, and I would loose you... I don't fully agree, please know I thought a lot about it before telling you this : I have only known you for a 1 month, but I'm good enough at seeing one's personality in a short amount of time. You also said that I fell in love with you too fast, so I think you might think it's too fast, I don't know you well enough and it means it won't go far, which means another disapointment for you... well no. I can see someone's personality quite fast, and even though it is indeed true that I still don't know you very well, it takes a lifetime to know someone perfectly, whatever other people might think, you never completely know someone. But what I know, and what I am sure of, is that you're a good girlfriend for me, and you're the only girl with whom I have been who ever managed to make me feel trully happy. And this tells me something : if we give it time, if we take the time to go slow, and learn to know each other better, we can be very happy together, whatever you may think, I keep thinking you're the one for me. Think about it : who would : learn a new language just to be able to talk to you in your own language (I learn Thai), who would leave his home country, everything he has, all relatives, to go study and live in a "foreign" country on the side of the world? Not many guys, I don't think so. But actually Khanom, this is what I'm currently doing. And whatever happens between you and me, I am still coming to do my studies in Thailand, and I will stay overthere for at least the next 2 years. You might think, and what about afterwards? After that, wether i'll keep studying (master? phd?), or I can start working, and I would indeed really like to work and live in Thailand. All this, would be so much better, with you next to me, because I do it a lot for you. Maybe you don't believe it will actually happen, but before November 2014 starts, you will see me again next to you. These 2 months to come, can give us the time to know each other better, to learn each other and maybe make plans. And then, when I'm in Thailand and near you again, you will be ready to tell me wether or not you think i'm worth your heart.
But after I thought about what you told me, I also realised that you're not wrong when yolu say that friends are forever, whereas most couples are not. However, I think that, if you trully love me like you said, and if you trully think I'm a good boyfriend for you, which means you really want me, I think there is no need to stop being a couple. Please think about it, but I think we can still be a couple, like boyfriend/girlfriend, AND be friends at the same time. Actually, the best, most happy and most long-lasting couples are the ones who can be boyfriend/girlfriend and remain bestfriends at the SAME time. If you trully love me and want me, we don't need to stop being a couple, I think we should still be boyfriend/girlfriend, but at the same time, remain bestfriends, which means we would both stop worrying, we would both be able to learn to know each other better because we would know that, while being bf/gf and friends at the same time, there is no chance for us to loose each other
Today was a very weird day... Khanom I thought a lot about what you said to me, and what I said to you, I thought a lot about what happened. I understand that, you really love me, and you said to I'm good boyfriend for you, but because of your past, you do not think relationships can last, and you think you will loose me in time, whereas you think friends are forever, and that's how you want to keep me, you think being friends is a sort of true love, whereas couple relationship is not. I know now why you think this way. You think boyfriend and girlfriend works only for a time, then you break up and you loose your partner, whereas you can keep someone you trully love as a friend forever.
Now I understand you think this way, because that's how most people act, and behave, most people will tell you "I love you forever" or "I swear you're the one for me and I will never love anyone else in my whole life", but in the end they end up dumping you for someone else and you loose them, I guess you're scared of that and you don't want it to happen, you want to keep me so you think the best way is to "change" the type of relationship... Maybe you also think that it was working good while I was in Thailand, near you, but now that I am far away, maybe are you scared that I end up going away for someone else, and you would loose me, and I would loose you... I don't fully agree, please know I thought a lot about it before telling you this : I have only known you for a 1 month, but I'm good enough at seeing one's personality in a short amount of time. You also said that I fell in love with you too fast, so I think you might think it's too fast, I don't know you well enough and it means it won't go far, which means another disapointment for you... well no. I can see someone's personality quite fast, and even though it is indeed true that I still don't know you very well, it takes a lifetime to know someone perfectly, whatever other people might think, you never completely know someone. But what I know, and what I am sure of, is that you're a good girlfriend for me, and you're the only girl with whom I have been who ever managed to make me feel trully happy. And this tells me something : if we give it time, if we take the time to go slow, and learn to know each other better, we can be very happy together, whatever you may think, I keep thinking you're the one for me. Think about it : who would : learn a new language just to be able to talk to you in your own language (I learn Thai), who would leave his home country, everything he has, all relatives, to go study and live in a "foreign" country on the side of the world? Not many guys, I don't think so. But actually Khanom, this is what I'm currently doing. And whatever happens between you and me, I am still coming to do my studies in Thailand, and I will stay overthere for at least the next 2 years. You might think, and what about afterwards? After that, wether i'll keep studying (master? phd?), or I can start working, and I would indeed really like to work and live in Thailand. All this, would be so much better, with you next to me, because I do it a lot for you. Maybe you don't believe it will actually happen, but before November 2014 starts, you will see me again next to you. These 2 months to come, can give us the time to know each other better, to learn each other and maybe make plans. And then, when I'm in Thailand and near you again, you will be ready to tell me wether or not you think i'm worth your heart.
But after I thought about what you told me, I also realised that you're not wrong when yolu say that friends are forever, whereas most couples are not. However, I think that, if you trully love me like you said, and if you trully think I'm a good boyfriend for you, which means you really want me, I think there is no need to stop being a couple. Please think about it, but I think we can still be a couple, like boyfriend/girlfriend, AND be friends at the same time. Actually, the best, most happy and most long-lasting couples are the ones who can be boyfriend/girlfriend and remain bestfriends at the SAME time. If you trully love me and want me, we don't need to stop being a couple, I think we should still be boyfriend/girlfriend, but at the same time, remain bestfriends, which means we would both stop worrying, we would both be able to learn to know each other better because we would know that, while being bf/gf and friends at the same time, there is no chance for us to loose each other
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