She gave birth to her first child in America which was a male child(Sean),so it was a successful married life for the both partner because having a male child was every man's wish at that time, 8 years later my parent had Elphida(meaning Hope) a female but this time it was not an easy task anymore because the income was not forth coming anymore because my father was still living under the roof of his father so all the money was actually coming in from my grandfather all though my father was the marketer of his creative art design and was also a maker.