I think my look is normal with splashes of crazy, but I can't believe the reaction of grownups sometimes when I dress up. My mum rarely says I look nice. I see a flicker of a sort of "gosh", but she looks mainly alarmed and in a cross voice (she denies this) says I need to dress appropriately for my age and that I look too grown up. My friends all have the same problem. It seems a miniskirt sets off some parental warning bell.