3. Space out the refreshments. Sit-down dinners don’t go too well with reverse weddings, where the whole idea is to party! Buffets aren’t great either ’cause nobody wants to go touch that ahi sashimi after it’s been sitting out for over an hour. Instead, stick to heavy apps so your guests don’t get too weighed down, but remember to space the food out in a logical order. Start with traditional apps, then move on to heavier apps and finish with bite-size desserts. This is a sequence that everyone can follow and will keep the evening moving in an order that feels natural and comfortable.