This has so much meaning for me. You see when my soul mate passed away. In a dream I could see him sitting on a beautifully carved red chair. He was dressed in blue down to the blue suede shoes, he was always looking for. I asked him if it hurt him if I went out and starting dating. His reply { Honey when it is your time, I will be here waiting for you) some may think this was wishful thinking, but he told me so many things that were going to happen, and did happen, just as he said it would.