Choosing between two partners would be:
Easy; I don’t need to consider it for long.
Difficult; I like to reflect on my decisions.
Neither easy nor difficult; I would make a well-considered decision.
When I am faced with a decision about a new partner:
I want to speak about it with someone close to me.
I make my own decisions without consulting others.
A relationship will be more successful if I:
Am reserved at first; trust needs time to grow.
Am prepared to trust my partner from the beginning.
My personal ad in one sentence...
"Wild horses will take us to the edge of the world to fetch a star – with me, each new day is a new adventure."
"Your rescue remedy, your parachute and your lifeboat – I’ll be there to catch you when you fall."
When I meet a new partner...
I want to know details about job, cultural and social background.
I rely mainly on spontaneous rapport.
The first date with a new partner and lightning strikes. I am head over heels in love! I would...
take the initiative - and the risk of my feelings not being reciprocated.
wait a while before speaking about my feelings.
hope for him/her to take the initiative, unless I am sure that his/her thoughts are the same as mine.
say nothing; if he/she has also fallen in love, he/she will tell me.
A traditional attitude towards role-distribution in a relationship is...
very desirable.
quite desirable.
so-so.
quite a deterrent.
very much a deterrent.