I though you are upset with me , that is reason why i keep on writing cos i don't like hurting people or people misunderstood me, but now i can see that is only your work that kept you busy . Ben i really appreciate your condolence over my wife death , life is just a wonderful gift from God which can taking from us any moment but as a human being we are it pains a lot when lose our lovely one, actually by daughter is 10 years old now .