When one feels the sense of power and control for their life and set life direction, one will lead one 's own destiny.
Buddhism also focuses on the self and the soul. Buddhism emphasizes self-responsibility for one's life and gives the power for one's thought and act. Buddhism fries to encourage good thought and good actions in all life circumstances. Praying and Meditation can help one get in touch with one's inner self which leads to self-direction in life.