Dear Pim,
My wife die in september 2013 after have suffer of cancer during more then one year.
I have done my mourning with respect for her.
In 1997 I was retired from teaching in Canada, our children were in couple out of house, we have decide to return in Europ. Me to build my house on an heritage land and her to see his 6 sisters and brother and mother living in France. We had been alone long time in Canada.
In 2002, my son had his first baby in Canada. My wife decide to go help 3 monthsand take care of baby. After 3 months she come back near me crying. She would return in Canada to take care of the baby. I was building my house working hard. She has return in Canada and I stay alone till 2007. I think that it is honourable for a woman to take care of his grand children but so she let me alone. I have ask divorce without do problems for family. Nothing was changed, only papers and I was going see the children and her in Canada like before.
You know all of my life now Effectivelly I am alone since 2002 = &é YEARS
I do not know if you understand to be alone for a man. Nobody during the day and nobody when you come back evening to home. So I was going on TLL sometime to speak with a woman just to have impression that somebody think to me;
I am not a bad man Pim
I wish you a good night
Jules