Above all else, I want you to think for yourself—to decide 1) what you want, 2) what is true and 3) what to
do about it. I want you to do that in a clear-headed thoughtful way, so that you get what you want. I wrote
this book to help you do that. I am going to ask only two things of you—1) that you be open-minded and
2) that you honestly answer some questions about what you want, what is true and what you want to do
about it. If you do these things, I believe that you will get a lot out of this book. If you can’t do these
things, you should reflect on why that is, because you probably have discovered one of your greatest
impediments to getting what you want out of life