1. keep your hands off the other person's food When a carton of your favorite ice cream suddenly appears in the freezer, don't assume that it's half yours. Don't eat even one bite of it until you have permission from tour roommate.
2. Respect need for quiet time. If you see your roommate reading a book, don't constantly interrupt her with conversation. If you know that she has to be at work early the next morning, keep the noise level low. One way for roommates to let each other know when they're sleeping is to have a small "sleeping" sign made that can hang from their bedroom doorknob.
3. Don't gossip about your roommate. Living in close quarters, your bound to discover something that would make excellent fodder for gossip . Don't do it. Remember that she the goods no you as well, and think about how you'd feel if she broadcast your bad habits to the world.
4. Don't get your feelings hurt. Being roommates doesn't mean you have to be beat friends. If your roommate makes plans without including you, accept that she has other pals she enjoys hanging out with. Besides, if you have a positive attitude about her other friends, you are likely to be included more often. most people resent someone who clings and smothers.
5. Deal with problems quickly As soon as you notice a problem, let your roommate know that it's time to have a talk. Go into the discussion with your point in a matter of-fact way and avoid flinging accusations. Never try to deal with the situation with the silent treatment, passive-aggressive behavior, or yelling. Most problems can be worked through, but if it's something you can't agree on, you might want to consider going your separate ways.