Pim,
There are many times you say on facebook that you fear I am going to leave you, yet you never give me a reason for why you think this. Maybe it is from your past, maybe you are just a very insecure person.
Now let me put you straight on something. If you always love me, are not with another man (real or internet), take care of me, always hug me in bed (and other bed stuff), are always honest and never lie to me, never steal from me or make me look foolish to other people), not argue with the lego shop man for a better price and try if possible for us to have one last child (i.e. no contraceptives)while still able , then chances are I will growing old with you.
None of these are something that any normal husband would not ask for.
But Pim, if you do start doing these then there is a chance we will not stay together, for as much as I would love you, I would feel that I could not trust you. And without trust there can be no marriage. I would not be a bad husband for leaving you, I would be someone hurt by their wife.
So, the question is not will I leave you, it is are you prepared to be a good, faithful and honest wife ?
And yes Pim I would like a child - one. I can think of no better way to spend my time in Thailand while you are working than in taking care of the child I have with the woman I love.
Richard