I didn't set my goals to please other people. I want to acheive them for myself and I only do it my way, healthy way. I have leant something new recently like many people seem to get me wrong when I say what's on my mind without bad intentions.. Do I really NEED to pretend to be someone else? Do I need to fake ? Well, Someone told me to... like she has been trying for a long time w different voice... Then why do her friends still dislike her? Does she try too hard? I don't understand why Everyone is so ready to say YES just to be a part of the group. I knew that I need to change something...perhaps just lower my voice but Never ever changed it.