During a yoga practice, we easily associate mediation as part of the package. However, it seems those times that we prepare for during meditation—fights with significant others, family issues, a work assignment that needs to be redone at 3:00pm on the Friday before a long weekend—are when those mediation techniques, which can best humanely serve us, fly out the window and base emotions fill that space.
Can you recall a time when you felt you had hit a sweet spot with your meditation practice and then, when the “you know what” hit the fan, had it all take a flying leap? Conversely, there have probably been difficult times when you were able to tune right into your higher perspective when responding to a dissatisfying issue that had arisen. If you have seen both extremes within yourself, can you identify what allowed you to take a moment to tap into the meditative reaction as opposed to opting for the hurtful words or negative response? It is a funny thing that we spend a dedicated amount of time preparing, with meditation, to take on the challenges that come in more neutral and non-attached ways only to have that slip when the wheels of a problem are set in motion.
When you find yourself in an instance where it feels that coolness is exiting, first things first, take a long, deep, slow breath into your belly and consciously slow down your thought process. Quickly scan what the immediate, then long term, effects could be of you ripping into someone without filtering your words. If any flags are thrown that the aftermath might be regrettable, attempt to respond in as calm a voice, and in as refined a vocabulary, as possible to keep from sending the situation into high gear. This ability is in you and is what your practice has given you the opportunity to integrate. It is the real world application of it in the midst of a confrontation that might pose a challenge. These are the times when the work of your introspection and tempering of the ego come into play.
If you are in a position where tempers might flare, or emotions may run high, and you can retain yourself to keep things in check, then that is great. If you see all of this coming, but opt to take the more brusque option with people involved, then monitor how you feel afterward. If you feel at ease with the way events transpired, then that is good news. If you find yourself regretting how the situation unfolded, learn from your feelings and the “I should have done things differently” voice that likes to make itself heard. After all, this is called a meditation “practice” precisely because it is a work in progress. And, if you feel you let the lessons elude you this time around, that does not mean the same must occur next time.
ในระหว่างการฝึกโยคะ เราได้เชื่อมโยงกาชาดเป็นส่วนหนึ่งของแพคเกจ อย่างไรก็ตาม มันดูเหมือนเวลาที่เราทำในระหว่างทำสมาธิ — ต่อสู้กับสำคัญอื่น ๆ ปัญหาครอบครัว การมอบหมายงานที่ต้องมีเรดวันที่ 3:00 pm ในวันศุกร์ก่อนวันหยุดยาว ซึ่งมีเทคนิคเหล่ากาชาด ซึ่งสามารถส่วน humanely เรา บินขึ้น และอารมณ์ฐานข้อมูลคุณสามารถเรียกคืนครั้งเดียวเมื่อคุณรู้สึกว่า คุณมีตีจุดแห่งความหวาน ด้วยการปฏิบัติสมาธิแล้ว เมื่อตี "คุณทราบว่า" พัดลม มีทั้งหมดใช้กระโดดบิน ในทางกลับกัน อาจมีเวลายากเมื่อคุณเคยได้ฟังขวาเป็นมุมมองของคุณสูงขึ้นเมื่อตอบปัญหา dissatisfying ที่ได้เกิดขึ้น ถ้าคุณได้เห็นทั้งสองที่สุดภายในตัวเอง คุณสามารถที่ได้รับอนุญาตให้เข้าเข้าสมาธิปฏิกิริยาตรงข้ามกับคัดเลือกหาคำ hurtful ตอบสนองเป็นค่าลบ เป็นสิ่งที่ตลกที่เราใช้เวลาเตรียม มีสมาธิ กับความท้าทายที่มากขึ้นเป็นกลาง และไม่แนบวิธีไปที่บันทึกเมื่อมีตั้งล้อของปัญหาในการเคลื่อนไหว ยอดเสน่ห์When you find yourself in an instance where it feels that coolness is exiting, first things first, take a long, deep, slow breath into your belly and consciously slow down your thought process. Quickly scan what the immediate, then long term, effects could be of you ripping into someone without filtering your words. If any flags are thrown that the aftermath might be regrettable, attempt to respond in as calm a voice, and in as refined a vocabulary, as possible to keep from sending the situation into high gear. This ability is in you and is what your practice has given you the opportunity to integrate. It is the real world application of it in the midst of a confrontation that might pose a challenge. These are the times when the work of your introspection and tempering of the ego come into play.If you are in a position where tempers might flare, or emotions may run high, and you can retain yourself to keep things in check, then that is great. If you see all of this coming, but opt to take the more brusque option with people involved, then monitor how you feel afterward. If you feel at ease with the way events transpired, then that is good news. If you find yourself regretting how the situation unfolded, learn from your feelings and the “I should have done things differently” voice that likes to make itself heard. After all, this is called a meditation “practice” precisely because it is a work in progress. And, if you feel you let the lessons elude you this time around, that does not mean the same must occur next time.
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