I am not sure of I will go to Pattaya before I leave. I do not have the time or money to travel right now.
I need to be clear of a few things. I am not looking for one person to spend the rest of my life with. I am looking for a polyamory relationship. Look it up on Wikipedia http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polyamory
The other very important point is - Anyone I am with MUST have their own job and must make their own money. I will not go into any relationship where I am the only person making money. Both people MUST be equal in all aspects od a relationship and that means both people must work and both people must make money. I have no desire to have a housewife, someone to stay at home clean the house, do the laundry and make the meals. I need to be very clear on this point I do not want that, it seems like everyone here wants that I do not want that. I come from Canada and we have very different ideas of a relationship than I have seen in Asia.
As for love that takes time. I cannot fall in love with someone I have exchanged a few messages with. I do not need to be with someone, if I do it will becasue we are compatible. That does not mean I want that person to be what they expect me to want. I will fall in love with someone for who they are and that will take time. I am in no rush to get into a relationship and I am not looking to support someone because they need to be supported. That is not a relationship and for me never will be.