Ladies: If a dapper young man is not into you please don't pull the "He's probably gay" card. The fact of the matter is that he would probably rather be gay than have to deal with you. Ever consider that just maybe the women who pull the "gay card" look like they were rode hard and put away wet? This seems to becoming more and more common or maybe it's because I'm new to the city where gay people actually live. That's doubtful though. How is it that I've never been confused about the sexuality of a woman I'm pursuing? Well, there was that one time I lived in Asheville, NC. . . But I digress. If "He's probably gay" it's *probably* time for you to stop projecting the self-loathing of your homeliness on others and hit the gym.