Pim ,
It is not about wanting to come or not.
It is about either coming for a month and trying to budget to see what we need, then come back January for life together.
OR
Try to get people to rent my house quickly and come to live sooner.
So, not say 'want' - it is wrong word. I want to get things right. I do not want to come and find we do nor have enough budegted - that was why i suggested a month in a condo - but I am just as happy to delay coming and use the 75,000 baht I have in the bank later for our life.
I ony asked if you had a preference Pim
It is not about the children Pim. Both your and mine previously will adapt.
Richard