So I ask you to please not bring it up with them until a few months after you get here and are fully adjusted with the kids. For now please focus on improving your english as that is the largest challenge I anticipate and while I've seen some improvement,we still have far to go. Thankfully we still have a few more months until May! Hopefully by May you are at least a level 5 with spoken english so the kids will not struggle so much to understand you.