someone to share and spend the rest of my life with. you see, i feel there are few very basic but essential elements of a relationship... (1) identifying the need to be in a relationship (2) decision and readiness to contribute to it success (3) honesty (4) trust (5) mutual respect (6) devotional commitment with a readiness to make sacrifices. knowing fully well that a gold must go through fire before it can be purified and graded