Older guy? nooo!
what do you need this guy?
In a few years He will become a grandfather and you'll have to worry about him.!
Search younger not much younger but younger!
I have a colleague. He is now 52 years.
7 years ago He married a girl who was 22 years old.
(It was his second marriage!)
After five years, she divorced him and ruined his company!
Today, He has neither wife nor children nor the company.
Are in you in Buddhism, you can get a divorce?