When you sleep somewhere else — like at summer camp or a friend's house — you know you're in for a fun time. It can be exciting to get away from the same old bed in the same old room in the same old house. And you get to hang out with your friends!
But fun as this is, for some kids being away from home can be scary and sad. They want to go and have fun with their friends, but once they're there, they start to miss their good old bed, their good old parents, and all that everyday stuff at home. It's called being homesick.
Maybe you were at a sleepover when someone ended up calling home and leaving early. Or maybe you've done this yourself. If so, it's OK. But you might want to know how you can feel less homesick, so next time you can stick around and enjoy the party. Let's find out.
No Place Like Home
When you're homesick, you're not sick in the usual way, like when you have a cold. Homesick means you're upset, sad, and maybe scared. You might cry when you're homesick. You also might have a headache or stomachache because being upset can sometimes make your body feel bad, too.
It's hard to be homesick. You're caught between two things you want — to have fun with your friends and to be back home where you feel safe. You might feel bad about leaving a party or having to call your mom or dad from camp. But don't be upset with yourself. A lot of people get homesick, even grown-ups.
When you're in a new place, it can take some getting used to. How will you fall asleep at your friend's house without your night-light and the sound of your mom watching TV in the next room? Won't it be strange at camp without your dad to give you a kiss goodnight?