This is especially true if you are her boyfriend and trying to figure out what she wants . Man and woman are different species with different meeds. How can we hope to care for each other inthe way that we would like to? The ture is that it is impossible. Misunderstandings arevinevitabls.you cannot avoid stepping on each other's toes .The only thing you can do is to be as consuderate as possible and apoliguze when you have wornged her