For sure he is a difficult guy who can be quite feisty and very hard – towards himself and others – and he likes to provoke. He has many loveable traits – but he often hides his true feelings. He cannot bear weakness. And he probably hardly ever allows anyone to get that close to be able to see the real person he is – and someone truly loving and caring about him might almost frighten him, although he is probably longing for it deep inside. He is afraid of getting hurt and even more of hurting - but with his fear he finally hurts the most, especially himself. And in the moments when it would be needed the most he does not allow anyone do be with him.