There is and increase of circulation and mobility ; a decrease in pain , increase in vitality , increase in physical functioning, the experience of being nurtured and cared for; a boost in self-esteem ; increase motivation to receive and give attention to self and others ; energy and emotional release; a sense memory triggering relaxation response ; relief from loneliness and isolation ; decreased feelings of abandonment and deprivation ; verbal interaction ; and calming reassurance and support .