The second mantra is to reaffirm the presence of the other person as someone very important to you
The second mantra , like the first , only works if you breathe in an out before saying it
Imagine the other person is not there ; he or has moved away or passed on
You might feel a big hole
Right now that person is alive and near you , so you're very lucky
That's why you have to practice the second mantra to remind yourself of the gift of that person's presence