You are going crazy with your grief, Aragorn. Every blond elf you see is reminding you of Shadow. You must get a grip of your emotions so you don't let Shadow down.
As Frodo brought forth the Ring, Boromir, the son of a Steward of Gondor spoke. "Then it is true. The One Ring had been found. Why not use it? Long have our people fought the forces of Mordor. Only by the blood of our people are your land kept safe. Give Gondor the weapon of the enemy...."