Figure Out What You're Trying To Avoid
What thought, what memory, what assumption you feel you have to make about yourself if you accept something to be true. Figure out what it is you're trying to avoid, and that will ease a lot of your over-thinking almost immediately. For example: if you're constantly over-thinking how a social interaction went, dig into why you're afraid that it didn't go well. Why is the potential of disapproval and unacceptance so horrifying to you? Is it a particular memory, or traumatic experience that you're trying to avoid? Is it that you don't feel you're giving yourself enough love and affection? Is it that your sense of self has always come from others, and you never learned otherwise? Figure out what it is you're running from so ardently. Over-thinking is what happens when it's too hard for your brain to accept one reality as "true.
Figure Out What You're Trying To AvoidWhat thought, what memory, what assumption you feel you have to make about yourself if you accept something to be true. Figure out what it is you're trying to avoid, and that will ease a lot of your over-thinking almost immediately. For example: if you're constantly over-thinking how a social interaction went, dig into why you're afraid that it didn't go well. Why is the potential of disapproval and unacceptance so horrifying to you? Is it a particular memory, or traumatic experience that you're trying to avoid? Is it that you don't feel you're giving yourself enough love and affection? Is it that your sense of self has always come from others, and you never learned otherwise? Figure out what it is you're running from so ardently. Over-thinking is what happens when it's too hard for your brain to accept one reality as "true.
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