1. You come on too strong. While men do love a woman with confidence, a woman who comes on so strong that she starts dropping hints about wanting to get married halfway through the third date is just going to chase any prospective mates away.
2. You always seem aloof. Sometimes we’re all aloof because we all have lots of shit going on, but it’s when it’s persistent and you consistently appear cold and standoff-ish, that it’s hard for anyone to want to be near you, let along fall for you.