I'm not sure what you mean if it's about you say you do not like mevand i say back if I were you.it is a common saying where I come from it only to say I understand your feeling even I am not you.it a polite thing to say.i did not mean to imply anything else i also said many time that I care about Pearwa.I certainly don't hate or dislike her.there is nothing to forgive there are only the problem we have.i do not think she is a bad person.i think the problem between us have become too much for too long and I fear a lot what her emotions might do to her heart or make her do to herself