Dear Desperate,
Thank you very much for your letter.I am really sorry to hear that things are bad at home. Howerer,if you take my advice seriously,the situation will get a lot better.
Under the circumstances I think we should look at your relationship with your parents. In your letter you don't mention whether the problem is mainly with your mom, or you dad ,or both. If you get along better with one parent,try talking to him/her first. You say in your letter thet you can't please them,but have you asked them what they expect form you?
You must remember that,abore all,your parents love you. When they ask you where you are going out with,ther are doing this because they care about you. I know it'tough;you feel like an adult,but to them you're still their little girl! So,don't feel that they're not giving you your freedom-they're just showing that they love you!
As for the phone calls,why don't you try to come to an agreement with your with your parents? You could try to explain that it makes your lofe really difficult if you can't answer the phone,and perhaps you could agree on a time when you can use the phone. As for your boyfriend, I hate to say this,but he couldn't have been very undestarding it he stopped secing you just because you can't speak to him on the phone. To sum up, I thing you all agree that thing can't go on like this. Try to talk to your parents more. If you know what they want,and they know what you want,you should all get along a lot better.
Best wishes,
Aunt Amdrea