Last but not least, I think all people want the warmth of the people we love like I need the warmth of a family or need attention overwhelming , I think the focus of each family are different away may live out. At least until the family could not see and think is not important, So I had hurt the family more attention to my brother made me keep quiet and not talk to anyone. Then I understood why the family had to do with me because I was young and wanted to comfort people. I understood that my family would not understand or do not care about my child just misunderstand.