Dear Annie
After five years of being together, my girlfriend and I became engaged Both of us have decent jobs, but we also have bills, and at the end of the month, we gave very little to put away. Neither of us comes from wealth families, nor are our families eager to give a large chunk of money to pay for the wedding.We are constantly harassed by friends and coworkers about when we're getting married, and it's become a public humiliation to my fianceewhen people say I must not be serious aboyt her because we haven't set a date.