if you have nothing good to write so you should probably just not write anything. I have visited your family and they were very nice .but they would Marget to tell how much money they spent on Chang and your child but Chang also work and earn money. so it's probably not just an expense that he is there. the last your mother asked was why do not we take Chang to Denmark so he could work and perhaps send money. is it love?. His mother loves him more than anything on earth. and if I understand what you write so you do not want to have contact more it is ok with me