It is both better and worse than they say.
It is both safe and dangerous, exciting and boring, exotic and boring. It can be your greatest dream and your worst nightmare.
It is what you make it.
I believe that marriage is neither will be good or bad, but that it is someone's choice whether to get married or not. There is nothing wrong with living a promiscuous lifestyle if it is what you really want to do. Everybody want to meet someone that will truly love and to spend my life with.