Then unsay if u come morning see my face say hello you don't believe me .... And if I do come I cannot come at night. Kim.... I cannot come at night anyway. Your very own freedom is restricted because you won't be firm with some guy . I am not you and I realise you are more gentle, but you have a fucking childish idiot ex- boyfriend . You need to treat him accordingly . If us tell a child nicely please don't do something .... He will carry on doing it because he know you are easy. If you punish a child he will learn fast . Anyway it is your life your freedom. Will you play hide from the ex all your life . I am saying this as a friend ...because I know , every time he is bored or drunk he will follow you , call you , inter fear with your life.....you NEED to close it no matter how, but u need to delete him from your life if you want to move on. I hope you find the strength to do that, for YOU not for anyone else but for you.