too long..lol....no i come here for 15 years...but i stay for over 2 years now...i lose my mum,..my dad and a brother to death in my last 36 years of life..my mum nearly 3 years ago..and my brother my oldest rother john..66 in november last year..so very sad last few years..my father die..when i only 13....now i only have my daughter...leilarnai..i have 1 older sister and 2 older brothers..but , we not stay in contact very much anymore..very sad ok