Sixth, people learn to relate in growth-producing ways. Growth-producing has three meanings. First, it means that people grow in intrapersonal and interpersonal competencies. Second, it means that or dinarily counseling is aimed at personality growth and not merely symptom removal. Third, counseling is not solely for psychologically disturbed people; normal people who are experiencing an obstacle to their growth can also benefit from counseling.
And seventh, counseling connotes a relationship between a counselor and a person seeking help. It is necessary that the person who approaches counseling is actually seeking help. This is in contrast to people who don't feel they need help but contact a counselor because someone talked them into it or because they want to complain about the people in their lives.