like I told you, my exwife found me at 25, I had lived in isolation since age 16, so for 9 years I was compltely alone ... she found me, and so-called 'helped' me by feeding me bullshit, telling me things about me that weren't true, lies to boost my ego, lies telling me how others saw me, covered from me anything hurtful people might think and only said people were thinking good things