A woman needs, like a flower, water (in a way the water can be likened to love). A flower, besides that vital ingredient, it needs fertilizer, and they like drawn an analogy can be likened to the little niceties, and why not, with the little niceties that one lover will always be willing to make to his woman, whether it is called in the beginning just friend at the ิbeginning, then can become friends in the true sense of the word in more intimate sense of the word, but not necessarily in total privacy), then why not as a future wife .. later to become the children’s mother and richness of his life.