I enjoy looking optimistic. Together we should be able to discover and understand more than we could alone. I have to have intellectual freedom. When I am indecisive, he can help me make decisions He also needs to allow me intellectual space and not be too overbearing and bossy. I also like having heated debates and I want a man that will debate with me without getting angry because I am only doing it for fun and an intellectual challenge. He has to listen to me and allow me to have my own opinion. All this is man i search