Tom, I was 45 years. But I have heart, feeling, thought, no different from a young age 13 years. If you think your children have feelings and mind only. You think wrong, I have thoughts and feelings as well as your son. I have a lot of problems to solve. I want a husband who understand me. Not hurt my feelings. After we talked last Saturday, I never be happy. I can't refuse that was you hurt In my heart.